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“GET OUT OF MY LIFE…you loser!” was the shriek that pierced through the air as his alcoholic spouse (wife) hurled a full bottle of water…with all her MIGHT that breezed within a half inch of hitting his nose. “You are such a FN@#$*^&”  she continued to yell. Then, suddenly the hurricane just stopped with the final SLAM of the front door and once again peace filled the house.

Her husband, sitting on the couch…continued to read his book without reacting
to his alcoholic wife’s outburst of rage.

I know if you are here right now, you are probably in a great deal of heart ache and pain. I understand…and I have been there too…and I am not going to continue on and on about how horrible you feel…because I know that you know it all too well…

You see, I was the spouse of the alcoholic in the story.

You already know how hard it is to stop obsessing over the alcoholic first thing in the morning. You wonder if they will be nice or abusive today, drunk or sober or if they will follow through with their responsibilities. You are lonely, frustrated, angry, confused and desperate for help.  And if that isn’t bad enough, you have to cope with the hurts of yesterday and the fears of tomorrow.

If you are in pain and confused?

Here’s some good news

Did you know that it’s possible to be happy and enjoy a life filled with peace and serenity, even if the alcoholic is drinking or not? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every person for whatever reason…being frustrated with the lies, exhausted with the constant arguing, fearful of getting a divorce and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like the alcoholic getting arrested or…

Yes, people living in all various types of situations have learned how to live a life filled with happiness and peace, even while interacting with alcoholic wives, husbands, children, friends or family members.

There is hope…

Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief…

And it’s okay…let me ask?

Don’t you know of people who are in similar situations? A relative or friend who is dealing with a dysfunctional relationship?

I would imagine you do…

I did…many of the people in my life are still lonely, frustrated and hopeless because they have not learned the SECRET keys that I know.

Yet, there are others who are coping with the alcoholic in their life without feeling hopeless and doing it with a smile on their face and a song in their heart…they know the Secrets to coping with dysfunctional people and situations.

“People learn every day how to be happy and Serene Regardless of their situation”

Seriously, doesn’t that make sense? That if others have learned how to live a more serene life…even under some unbelievable circumstances…that there could be some hidden methods that work for dealing with alcoholics? Could you believe that these people have actually learned how to love the alcoholic unconditionally as well?

Now, I am not saying that they use a magical combination of meditation, prescribed medications or secret spells…not at all…Mostly they do and say the Right Things at the Right Time…by doing so consistently,  they are living happy lives in the middle of Disastrous Situations.

Allow me to say it again…they simply do and say the RIGHT THINGS.

What if? What they say…and what they do…could be placed in a “container” so to speak? And then you could “remove” it and put it to use? To set boundaries…relieve frustration…to eliminate anxiety.. and start enjoying your life again, even if the alcoholics are still drinking.

Yes… even while coping with an active alcoholic spouse

You see there is a way to overcome the fear and anxiety that accompany interacting with an alcoholic wife or husband.

What I do… and them…can be repeated over and over to achieve the same results in your life.

And you know what?

If I were you…I would be somewhat skeptical right now…that’s totally fine! I am going to show you some undeniable evidence. Just hang in there with me okay?

Are you dealing with these situations?

  • Losing sleep because the alcoholic is not home
  • Examining them every time you are around them to see if they are drunk
  • Pacing the floor because of the turmoil going on inside of your emotions
  • Calling the alcoholic to see if they have been drinking
  • Constantly reminding them of plans hoping they won’t break them
  • Walking on eggshells because you never know when they will lose their temper
  • Thinking non-stop about them
  • Feeling massively depressed
  • Driving around searching for them
  • Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said
  • Endlessly rehearsing what you will say when you do talk to them
  • Saying things to them that make you feel horrible afterward
  • Confronting the lies and just getting even more irritated afterward
  • Loneliness because you are always second place to the bottle

Do You Make These Mistakes?

  • Going ballistic on them because your emotions are at their breaking point
  • Saying things in your frustration that you really do not mean
  • Trying to convince them they are ruining their lives and the lives of others

…and of course with every single word we peep, no matter what our intentions, the more and more abrasive, mad and unreasonable they become.

Please know…this is not your fault! You did not cause the alcoholic to pick up a drink and get drunk…you never learned in school how to handle dysfunctional relationships…and I’m guessing your parents never taught you about coping with an alcoholic either. Mostly,  you did not force them to choose to drink.


And it is really a shame too because alcoholics
and drug addicts are at every turn in life.

So why?  Is there so much information about everything under the sun, yet very little HELPFUL information on how to…deal with drug addicts or cope with an alcoholic?

It’s insane huh?

And now as you will soon see…all that has changed.

“JC Gets Training on The Battle Field”

Let me take a moment for us to get acquainted…my name is JC. First off,  I am not a psychiatrist, physician or some relationship Expert…In fact  I’ve no degrees in counseling…

I have on the other hand been horribly addicted to alcohol and sober for over thirteen years. I know the personality of an alcohol addicted person firsthand.

My mother, brother, step father and x-wife were at some point or still are alcoholics.
One of my best friends took his own life because of the depression that accompanies alcoholism.

I come from a long history of interacting with alcoholics and have attended no less than two thousand (2000)  AA and Al-anon meetings (designed to help friends and family members of alcoholics, spouses included)…

…I may not have the degrees from a university, but have certainly graduated from the school of hard knocks…

I can truly empathize with your situation!

I had no idea at the time of experiencing all of the horrors associated with alcoholism that I was actually Being Trained….for my life’s purpose…. to help others cope with dysfunctional situations.

In fact, I got quite good at doing this, so-much-so that I was the “go to” guy whenever my friends had just about any kind of “dysfunctional relationship problem”…I kind of felt like DR Phil without the TV show.

Perhaps you have a friend like me?…someone that you confide in about your relationship issues who understands your frustrations…firsthand.

Moving on…I’ve had an unbelievable amount of practice at coping with alcoholics…because of the MANY YEARS of dealing with dysfunctional relationships…and battling with the bottle myself. Top it off with the thousands of support group meetings that I’ve participated in and you have the perfect combination of experiences to help others with.

ATTENTION: These are Not The Status Quo Methods

You need to know that my advice falls far from the NORM of what you might GET from spending months (thousands of dollars) in private counseling. These tips I reveal were born through me listening to thousands of conversations from people dealing with alcoholics, once being an alcoholic myself… and living with active drug addicts and alcohol abusers.

Now you are free to make up your own mind about me. I just don’t believe that any amount of college degrees trump the REAL WORLD experience that I have lived through…

I mean, who really knows how to deal with an alcoholic?…The one who listened to a lecture in school on dysfunctional relationships? Or the person who WAS an alcoholic…who is now SOBER…who has LIVED DAILY with an Alcoholic/Addict spouse and spent the past ten years going to support group meetings… specifically to learn from thousands of people living with active alcoholism?

I don’t know about you, I’d choose the guy with the most experience and the best price any day!.

Now, if you have read all the way to this point, I’m guessing that you are dealing with a seriously difficult situation…I think  I can help…

Here’s what I can do for you…

If you are sick-and-tired of being sick-and -tired…from dealing with an alcohol abuser, obviously I cannot help everyone in person…but in order to help thousand…

I’ve put the majority of the best advice I can give you into an easy to understand series…and again these were NOT taken from a text book…and I doubt you’ve used these techniques before.

…you need to know something…

without fail…these things work!

Not only will they work with alcoholic/addicts, but these same principles can be used with just about every relationship in your life….To HELP you LOVE others WITHOUT CONDITIONS. I use these techniques on a daily basis to maintain OUTSTANDING relationships with friends, children and co-workers WHO ARE NOT ALCOHOLICS.


Anyway, I call this series Secrets to Dealing With Alcoholics…I’ve seen so many people benefit from these techniques…In my opinion there’s no situation that cannot get better! There’s hope for all dealing with seemingly impossible situations. I’ve seen people HAPPILY live with alcoholics for years through applying these lessons on a daily basis.

Not all news is BAD…many alcoholics do get SOBER.

The best part of what I have to share is that you CAN live a more peaceful life, even if they are still drinking.

You have probably reached the point of wanting some proof, right? I would also if I were you.

Here’s Evidence These Techniques Works

The best way for me to show you this stuff works is by giving you a few FREE pointers. I’m also  going to share a couple of the reviews people wrote after learning the techniques. It always amazes me how…people find these methods of dealing with addicts applicable to ALL types of  relationships in life.

Now, I decided that it would be more beneficial to you to give you something SOLID rather than just a little taste…you know, something you can start using right away. It’s actually one of the core foundations or FIRST STEPS you should be starting with anyway.

Here’s how to start making changes today…

Instant Access to 37 Audio Lessons on Dealing With Alcoholics

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Bonus Ebooks 2

There’s No Situation That Cannot Get Better

Here’s what I’ve noticed, most of us dealing with alcoholics get so caught up in the dysfunctional situations that we don’t realize the hidden things that have slowly crept into our thinking, emotions and how we are acting.

We just know, WE HATE the way WE FEEL.

Once we get insight into what has actually happened, after getting a little guidance on what to do differently…the nerves begin to settle and the mind stops obsessing over the alcoholic…it’s a lot like being handed an easy to follow guide…

Because not only will you get instruction on what to say, but also what to do. You will also begin to have more self- control…

…Isn’t that something?

If you are anything like I used to be, your feeling totally out of control right now.

Let’s talk about what’s actually in Dealing With Alcoholics and how it can help you.



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Bonus 3

  • The Secrets of Our Dysfunctional Lives- This lesson helps you identify with the things we hide as we put a smile on our faces and pretend that every thing’s alright.
  • Late Nights When They Don’t Come Home-This is a step-by-step guide on how to handle your emotions when they are out getting drunk all night while you are pacing the floor. I give specifics on what to do.
  • The section on selfish alcoholics gives you an inside look at what’s going on in the mind of the alcoholic to make them so selfish.
  • Losing A Person To Alcoholism- Get the real story of my friend who took his own life and learn from the things I did in the midst of the storm.
  • Getting A Grip- Because our emotions seem to be going all over the place, as a direct result of what they are doing, we need a guide to getting a grip on what we are experiencing in the moment. This is an emotional grip that inevitably calms the nerves.
  • A Story of Hope. This is where I tell how “I” quit being a pathetic drunken mess and how I’ve stayed sober for many years since. It will infuse hope into your attitude of despair and hopelessness.
  • Stepping Out Of The Past And Away From The Future-You will learn how to stay present in the moment. These techniques will help you gain control over your mind, this way you can stay present in the moment while being with your kids or at work or while you are doing whatever.
  • How To Overcome Anxiety-You’re going to get loads of helpful information that will strip away the panic and fear that accompanies your day to day life. It’s horrible constantly being a ball of nerves. These tips will help you stop letting someones actions throw you into a downward spiral.
  • The Alcoholics Best Friend- This is an in depth look into the personality of the alcoholic to help you see how the addiction works. You will not take their actions as personally as you are now after absorbing this lesson.
  • Just Say No- Did you know that “no” is a complete sentence?  Of course you did, but why do we constantly feel like we must explain ourselves after saying no? You’ll learn the power of just saying “no.”
  • We Don’t Do Guilt-How many times have you wrestled with your thoughts that somehow “all” of this is your fault? What about the thoughts that bombard us after we have lost our temper with the alcoholic. These are powerful tips on how to STOP the guilt before it begins.
  • Always Say Goodbye-You will learn new ways of communicating with the alcoholic in your life that will radically change your attitude towards them. You will be able to express yourself in a  more gentle and kind way after learning these techniques.
  • Why Family And Friends Of Alcoholics Need Recovery-Most people think that every thing’s the alcoholic’s fault and if they could just STOP DRINKING everything would be Okay! The insights revealed here will help you SEE how much the alcoholic has affected your life and how much you have actually changed because of their behaviors.
  • Preparing For When They Hit Bottom-I reveal key points as to what you should do to be ready for when they decide to get help.
  • What If They Get Arrested-Handling situations like this will be easier after you hear my story of how I handled things when someone close to me was arrested on six counts of having a controlled substance without prescriptions.
  • How Many Times Do We Forgive- It seems like we are constantly having to forgive the alcoholic for the horrible things they have done. When do we say “ENOUGH is ENOUGH”?
  • Understanding The Alcoholics Craving-I can greatly empathize with an alcoholic in understanding how powerful the craving is because I used to be totally addicted. Now you can better understand what exactly is going on with them, straight from the mouth of a former alcoholic.
  • Dealing With Outbursts Of Rage. The abusive alcoholic that was in my life used to hit me, call me horrible names and the outbursts were oftentimes not detectable. I know how to handle these types of situations and… so will you after you go through this training.
  • Saying What We Don’t Mean-We’ve all done it and afterward felt horrible about the things we said. I can teach you how to NOT say the things you don’t mean when you are angry and upset.
  • Now that’s ONLY half of the lessons…there’s a TON of more stuff in here.

Have I mentioned that there’s a 100% satisfaction guarantee? If you’re not happy with the materials…I’ll totally refund your investment (limited time).

Lessons on Coping With Alcoholics

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Hundreds of people I’ve interacted with, in support group meetings,  have benefited from much of the advice found in the Secrets to Dealing With Alcoholics. Yeah, people just like you who felt lonely and irritated because of an alcoholics behaviors, now have the skills to ease their nerves and are experiencing peace and serenity in their lives.

Will you let me help you as well?

Things People Wonder About and Questions You May Have

What if I’m not satisfied with the materials and find that these techniques are not making a difference? Well, first off let me just say that they will for certain make a huge difference in your life….but in any case… I will refund your money when you request a refund before fifty five days from your purchase date.

Couldn’t I search the Internet and find help? I suppose you could, but you won’t find anything like this. There are just not audio lessons of this magnitude that I’ve seen out there. They are 100% downlaodable too. So, you can burn them to a CD or put them on your Ipod.

When will I get the Secrets to Dealing With Alcoholics? Well, we have several options.  The entire process is handled by reputable merchants, safe, secure and fast. Click on the “Add to Cart” button to get the details of the various options.

Will my Macintosh computer be able to access the info? Not a problem, the audios can be easily listened to or downloaded.

What if I have a question about dealing with an alcoholic, can I contact you? Yes, I’m going to include in the materials an email address exclusively for the people who purchase the product.

It’s my desire to see you get a handle on this situation you are dealing with… I will take you step-by-step and…

  • Show you exactly what to say and when to say it
  • Teach you when to not say anything
  • Help you really see what is happening between you and the alcoholic
  • Give you the tools you need to live a happier and more peaceful life
  • Focus on something other than what the alcoholic is doing all of the time
  • Put an end to the constant turmoil inside of your emotions
  • Stop fighting and arguing with the alcoholic
  • Get your appetite back
  • Get a full nights sleep
  • Enjoy your life for a change
  • Be a lot more lighthearted

You CAN have all of the above for as little as $47.97 dollars and possibly less, with a “NO RISK GUARANTEE” attached to your investment. That’s less than one third of what you might pay per hour to a therapist.

Order and download the secrets to Dealing With Alcoholics. If these tips don’t help “you” gain self control, calm your emotions or quit fighting and arguing with the alcoholic, I will promptly and nicely refund your money.

Now is that fair enough?

This is going to sound a little salesy…if that’s even a word…I want to strongly urge you to order now because I cannot think of anything that would be better than calming the storm of interacting with an alcoholic…Can you?

Think about it…

The longer you wait the worst things will get. Isn’t that what has happened already?

So… click on the order button so you can instantly download the Secrets to Dealing With Alcoholics and let’s get going today with making some positive changes. This is your chance to put an end to the anxiety, fear, arguing, fighting and constant obsession over the alcoholic in your life.

Dealing With Alcoholics

Instant Access to 37 Audio Lessons on Dealing With Alcoholics

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There’s No Situation That Cannot Get Better